Thursday, October 23, 2008

Sharing Emotions

2 - Liking for the other person.
3 - Love for the other person.
3 - Anger with the other person.
3 - Disappointment with the other person.
3 - Liking for a third person.
9 - Love for a third person.
3 - Anger towards third person.
3 - Disappointment with a third person.
2 - Anger towards yourself.
3 - Disappointment in yourself.
5 - Embarassament.
5 - Your fears.
5 - Happiness.
5 - Enthusiasim.
5 - Pride.
5 - Uncentainly.

Shows that overall im about average on all topics

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Anxiety Quiz

my anxiety quiz overall i got 98 points. Above 18 indicates degree of apprehension im like the majority of Americans. i got 23 pts in interpersonal conversation. 29 in public speaking. 20 in group discussion. and 26 in meetings.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

What Conflict Management style do u use

I think the style i use most is sometimes avoidance. And at other times i like to use collaboration because u both will get something out of it on both sides. Win-Win situation. Or i would go the other way and choose avoidance because sometimes i just dont want to deal with the problem, and i would just be silent or just brush it off. I think its pretty effective with both kind of ways, depending on the situation.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Listening test

I scored a 59 on the Mental Attentiveness for the listening test. I guess that means im some what attentive to people if im doing other stuff. When i try to learn stuff i have to be just doing that one thing if im trying to get the stuff. "You responses indicate that your mental attentiveness is generally good, but needs to be improved. During conversations, you sometimes have difficulty fully attending to a speaker, and may occasionally find your mind wandering. Good listeners will try to find at least one thing remotely interesting about a dull topic instead of zoning out or simply pretending to be interested. They also know how to keep their focus centered on the speaker, no matter how strong the temptation to daydream. Keep in mind that if you are not fully attuned to a conversation, you may end up missing out on a lot of important information, which, in some cases, can have rather embarrassing results!"

SPEECH

I did my speech yesterday first thing when class started. Once i was finished i was really happy and proud of myself. Im starting to like this class, its helping me with my communication skills. And making me more social, and people oriented.